The Answers You Seek Can Be Found In Your Past
In her long-awaited new book, Breaking Your Loyalty Contract: Shattering the Mirror Effect Between Parents and Children, Childhood Expert Maria Steuer invites you to explore why issues from your own childhood are being reflected back to you through your child’s “misbehavior.”
When behavioral issues come up, you’re not actually battling your child’s behavior. You’re battling your own childhood, the expectations of your parents, and the subconscious contracts of loyalty you formed to your parents!
It’s really not.
It doesn’t take years of therapy to discover the counterproductive ways of thinking that you unconsciously formed in your childhood. As you turn the light on your own childhood, you can easily see yourself and your child in a new light and deal with his or her behavior in a way that brings joy and growth to your relationship.
Maria Steuer serves as your guide and show you the tools that can be easily implemented to bring about amazing change in a short amount of time. You will be able to find what works best for you from your unique upbringing and current day-to-day interactions with your child.
Set Yourself Free!
Breaking Your Loyalty Contract provides you with a set of engaging tools and empowering exercises to bring about amazing change in a short amount of time. You will be able to find what works best for you from your own unique upbringing and current day-to-day interactions with your child.
By exploring your childhood and understanding why you think the way you think, you’ll gain a crystal clear understanding that behavior exhibited by your child need not be labeled as “bad” simply because your parents labeled it as such when they saw it in you.
(How refreshing is that?)
Crisp, Concise, To the Point
Maria Steuer has structured Breaking Your Loyalty Contract so its chapters are brief, to the point, and concise. In fact, the entire book can be read in a single setting. This allows you to absorb and understand the probing lessons and tools shared by Maria more easily.
The compact format of Breaking Your Loyalty Contract also makes it simple to revisit and review chapters and sections that resonate with you most.
Know Your “Why”
and the “How” Will Follow
The beauty of Breaking Your Loyalty Contract is that it is definitely NOT a “how-to” parenting book.
How-to books usually offer cookie-cutter parenting solutions that tempt you to compare your results to those that can be achieved “according to the book.”
This can cause you to judge yourself too harshly and sway you to believe you’re not a good parent when in fact you are.
Instead, Breaking Your Loyalty Contract encourages you to explore your childhood to discover “why” you think the way you think as a parent.
At the moment you understand your “why” your “how to” method will flow into your heart and be uniquely your own.
Emotional Nourishment Is Vital
Breaking Your Loyalty Contract is a beautiful permission slip to explore your childhood and your family dynamic. The journey you undertake will be inspiring and transformative.
Step away from generational regulations, well-intentioned advice and family constraints.
When you do, parenting your children will become the joyous journey it is meant to be.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Maria Steuer, The Childhood Expert, is a renowned pediatrician and family therapist based in Germany. She specializes in examining the root cause of childhood behavioral patterns. Maria has experienced the ups and downs of raising three of her own children, and as a doctor for Germany’s education system she has advised more than 20,000 parents on childhood behavior issues.
Her mission today is to help parents around the world realize how their own childhood experiences influence their habits, expectations, and belief systems. She also helps parents understand how they unconsciously transmit these habits, expectations, and beliefs to their children. Read more